God first planted the seed for adopting an orphaned girl from China when I was 19yrs old. I had no idea how that seed would flourish and bloom in the years to come. I remember mentioning my seeded thought to my boyfriend. Even then, that path was the brier patch for Chad Strange.
Twenty years later our hearts still yearn for the orphan. We adopted the first little girl from China in '06. While in China we met a family odopting an older child. As we heard her delightful cry of "Daddy" that week, we sat holding our baby knowing we would be back a second time. In '08 we returned to adopt Jolee, a nine year old with a slight heart defect. Even then, we knew we would be back a third time. Why? Because China has a policy that families can only have five children in the home under 18 yrs old in order to qualify to adopt. When most people say, "That's fine because five is too many;" my heart says, "then, if I have four, there is room for one more." Thus, our mental quest for Sophia emerged.
It is 2011 and the wait for a healthy child is, frankly, not do-able for us at 40. We do have our hands full with the four we have and to take on a child that needs great medical attention or has insatiable needs from being in an orphanage situation for years is not something we have a peace about from the Lord. However, we continue to know we are supposed to adopt one more time, even if it is NOT from China. I cried my eyes out over this realization, but I know it is from the Lord.
While I've been praying for a miracle for that perfect Chinese girl to show up in our path, God has been doing a new thing out of Africa. The rest of my family has been settled on this being the will of God for months. I'm a little slower. My prayer was this, "Lord, you know my heart is in China -- beause it's been there most of my life --- but I see yours is everywhere there is an orphan; for your heart breaks for the fatherless, regardless of continent. Move my heart to line up with where Your heart is for our family."
Wouldn't you know it? God is faithful. Ethiopia has a population of around 9 million people, with 4-5 million being orphans. The need is great. I can't change the lives of 4-5 million, but I can take one -- and be her mama, for this is my true act of worship before the Lord. The Lord is not asking me to change the world --- but to change the world for three little girls, sprinkled across the globe - for His glory.
This is certainly not using the Easy button to family. My friends think we're nuts and probably in over our heads. Well, they may be right. But God is clear about His heart attitude. Just today, I read:
He is the helper of the fatherless (Ps. 10:14); and,
He sustains the fatherless (Ps. 146:9).
Fortunately, He knows what He is doing, even when we don't, for He declares of Himself:
I am the LORD, the God of all mankind. Is anything too hard for me?" (Jer. 32:26-27)
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