In my previous blog, I announced a slight change in our adoption plans. Instead of a baby girl, we are adopting a sibling group of 4. Those around me will hopefully testify that I am moving out of the panic-stricken stage that periodically sent me into hot flashes and paralyzing migraines; and into a state of peace and preparation. I’m even starting to get excited about having a couple of little boys for the first time!
Over the weekend I was thinking, if it is true to say, “It takes a village to raise a child,” then what does it take to raise my own personal village!?! A village who doesn’t speak English or know anything about Western personal hygiene --- because that is what we are adopting!
It takes you. At least, it will take those who choose not to be intimidated with the chaos, and instead, come in close. One way you can choose to come closer is to share in the process.
Today is our long-awaited U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services fingerprint appointment! This is a branch of Homeland Security that issues approval for all international adoptions. We will drive to another city, wait with possibly a hundred other people, and when our names are called, press our fingers in a computerized scanning system, and drive home. In fact, we will leave EARLY because missing it or arriving late is not optional, per our appointment notice: “IF YOU FAIL TO APPEAR AS SCHEDULED, YOUR APPLICATION WILL BE CONSIDERED ABANDONED.” A riveting experience, it is not --- but it is a necessary one with a price tag of about $900.
In a few weeks we will receive the coveted I-171H (a single piece of paper through the mail service), giving us the approval to bring our children into the U.S. This piece of paper is generally the last piece of the Paper Pregnancy before all the documents are prepared to go to the country in which the children originate, which I believe, makes it a precious commodity to the parents waiting to get their new children. People like us!
It’s time to head out. Thanks for reading about this dreadful and tedious process, and by doing so, coming in close. It’s helpful to share the load of a village.
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